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<p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 25.6px; text-decoration: inherit; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">生活中的10％是由发生在你身上的事情组成，而另外的90％则是由你对所发生的事情如何反应所决定。</strong></span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); line-height: 25.6px;">换言之，生活中有10%的事情是我们无法掌控的，而另外的90%却是我们能掌控的。<strong style="color: rgb(0, 122, 170); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; white-space: normal; widows: 1; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6000003814697px;">这便是美国心理学家<span style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">费斯汀格</span>著名的</span><span style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6000003814697px;">“费斯汀格法则”。</span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">费斯汀格在书中举了这样一个例子：</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">卡斯丁早上洗漱时，随手将自己高档手表放在洗漱台边，妻子怕被水淋湿了，就拿过去放在餐桌上。儿子起床后到餐桌上拿面包时，不小心将手表碰到地上摔坏了。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">卡斯丁疼爱手表，便揍了儿子一顿，并黑脸骂了妻子一通。妻子不服气，说是怕水把手表打湿才放桌上的。卡斯丁说他的手表是防水的，</span><span style="line-height: 25.6px;">于是二人猛烈地斗嘴起来。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="line-height: 25.6px;"><br /></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="line-height: 25.6px;">一气之下卡斯丁早餐也没有吃，直接开车去了公司，快到公司时突然记起忘了拿公文包，又立刻转回家。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">然而妻子上班去了，儿子上学去了，<span style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">家中没人，而</span>卡斯丁的钥匙留在公文包里！他进不了门，只好打电话向妻子要钥匙。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">妻子慌张地往家赶，撞翻了路边水果摊，摊主非要她赔偿了一笔钱才放她离开。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">待拿到公文包返回公司，卡斯丁已迟到了15分钟，挨了上司一顿严厉批评还不算，下班前又因一件小事，跟同事吵了一架。他的心情低落到了极点。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">妻子也因早退被扣除当月全勤奖，而这天参加棒球赛的<span style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">儿子</span>，原本夺冠有望，却因心情不好发挥不佳，第一局就被淘汰了。。。<br /></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br /></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"></span><span style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">都是因为没有很好地掌控那90%，才导致了这一天成为“闹心的一天”。</span></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br /></span></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">试想，卡斯丁在那10%产生后，假如换一种反应。比如，他抚慰儿子：“不要紧，儿子，手表摔坏了没事，我拿去修修就好了。”这样儿子高兴，妻子也高兴，他本身心情也好，那么随后的一切就不会发生了。</span></p><p><br /></p><p><strong style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; white-space: normal; widows: 1; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="line-height: 25.6000003814697px; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; widows: 1; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">可见，</span></strong><span style="line-height: 25.6000003814697px; font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; widows: 1; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">你控制不了前面的10％，但完全可以通过你的心态与行为决定剩余的90％。</strong></span></span></strong></p><p><strong style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; white-space: normal; widows: 1; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br /></span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">在现实生活中，常听人抱怨：我怎么就这么不走运呢，每天总有一些倒霉的事缠着我，谁能帮帮我？</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(0, 122, 170); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; white-space: normal; widows: 1; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">其实，</strong>这都是一个心态问题。</span></strong><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">能帮助自己的不是他人，而是自己。</strong></span></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br /></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; 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box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">软件咨询：QQ: 712638 406</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 12px; line-height: 24px; font-family: Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">配件咨询：QQ: 712638 407</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 12px; line-height: 24px; font-family: Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">交流Q群：1106 11074</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; 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