守住别人的秘密，其实是守住了自己的人格

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                    <p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" data-ratio="1" data-w="" width="auto" src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/SibicJCDFa33cwjlUDAbVSIy0Mh1icw0SGFl83JTibmdUoDNjicSXtERAnvxBOvU3fCNGB8icYnRWczYiaqGibtDW8XfMA/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" style="box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; width: auto !important; visibility: visible !important;"  /><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1.5em; line-height: 2em; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word; min-height: 1.5em; line-height: 2em; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important; background-color: white;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; font-family: 宋体, SimSun; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 华文细黑; color: rgb(153, 51, 0); font-weight: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　　世界上有多少人，就有多少秘密。一段感情、一个理想、偶尔的错误、错过的姻缘、难言的隐私，能耐心听朋友倾诉，能替别人守住秘密，保护好人家的隐私真的是特别重要的美德。相信每个人都有过向别人倾诉秘密的时候，相信每个人都有过倾听别人秘密的时候。</span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word; min-height: 1.5em; line-height: 2em; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important; background-color: white;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; font-family: 宋体, SimSun; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 华文细黑; color: rgb(153, 51, 0); font-weight: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">
&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;其实我们都知道，没有人能松解别人的痛苦，别人要的只是倾诉，像倒垃圾一样的倒完心中尘埃，人就轻松了，解压了，然后一转身扬起笑脸，又是一番自信和自恋。当别人向你倾诉秘密的时候，说明他信任你，并且认可你的人格。面临倾诉者最主要的是保密，哪怕是不堪的隐私，我们只要倾听、理解、劝慰，然后就是忘却——忘却他说过的稳私。始终认为，倾听秘密然后消除秘密，是做人最基本的要求，也是准则。</span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word; min-height: 1.5em; line-height: 2em; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important; background-color: white;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; font-family: 宋体, SimSun; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 华文细黑; color: rgb(153, 51, 0); font-weight: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">
　 &nbsp;然而现实毕竟太复杂，人的素质也各不相同，能不能分清可倾诉者，得有一双慧眼，至少，也要有一双稍微能看清别人有无口德的眼睛，否则秘密就会一个传一个的……“千万不要告诉别人”的链条中传播开来。以至最后成为公开的秘密或者是不公开而大家都知道的秘密。这就是关于秘密的笑柄，也是秘密传播的规律。</span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word; min-height: 1.5em; line-height: 2em; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important; background-color: white;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; font-family: 宋体, SimSun; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 华文细黑; color: rgb(153, 51, 0); font-weight: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　
&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; 曾经也和朋友倾诉过，然而时隔不久，这件事却有另一个朋友那里反馈到我的耳朵。我听后从容的笑了笑，朋友惊讶，问我：“你不生气吗？你不恨她吗？”我说：“为什么要恨别人呢？秘密是由自己说出去的，既然自己可以和别人倾诉的，那已经不叫秘密了，怪只怪自己太相信别人的口德和品德。”</span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word; min-height: 1.5em; line-height: 2em; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important; background-color: white;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; font-family: 宋体, SimSun; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 华文细黑; color: rgb(153, 51, 0); font-weight: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">　</span></strong></span></p><p style="text-align:center"><img data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/dx3KibwtDhvea5iaWRibKLDObGJr6p7ptjMcMDoib3PpUTPmcjdf5zZNALNVp8uicrN1uxKxrA0NJjoJpjpmSK0IlGA/0?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-ratio="0.6660682226211849" data-w=""  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word; min-height: 1.5em; line-height: 2em; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important; background-color: white;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; font-family: 宋体, SimSun; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 华文细黑; color: rgb(153, 51, 0); font-weight: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">
&nbsp; &nbsp; 通过这件事情，反倒心里明白了一个道理：有些事情永远是属于一个人的，有些秘密，适合放到心底，自己一个人慢慢发酵，感受回忆中的香甜和发酵之后的苦涩。然后小心翼翼的封存在我们的记忆里，因为这也是我们人生中一次宝贵的经历。至于那些被公开的秘密，学会泰然处之，学会从容面对。我挫故我在，真实的自己比
遮遮掩掩虚伪的人要好的多。</span></strong></span><br  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word; min-height: 1.5em; line-height: 2em; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important; background-color: white;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; font-family: 宋体, SimSun; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 华文细黑; color: rgb(153, 51, 0); font-weight: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">
&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;也许，很多人一直以来都希望能守住别人告诉自己的秘密，但是或者每个人都没有做得那么好。试问一下我们自己呢？有则改之，无则加勉吧。世态炎凉，人生冷暖，守住别人的秘密，并非一件易事。它是一种真诚，也是一种对世间万物的理解和醒悟，更是一个人的修养和爱。人间秘密，林林总总，又千奇百怪，守住别人的秘密，就是守住了他人的声誉，守住别人的</span></strong></span><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; font-family: 华文细黑; color: rgb(153, 51, 0); font-weight: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">秘密，其实是守住了自己的人格</span></strong></p><p><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; font-family: 华文细黑; color: rgb(153, 51, 0); font-weight: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br  /></span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; 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