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                    <section class="" data-tools="gulangu" data-id="85446" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; line-height: 25.6px; border: 0px none; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">西格蒙德·弗洛伊德</strong></span><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></section><section style="margin: 2px 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 0px rgb(33, 33, 34); font-size: 12px; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-width="40%" style="padding-top: 2px; padding-right: 2px; padding-left: 2px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 212.797px; border-top-width: 3px; border-top-style: solid; border-top-color: rgb(33, 33, 34); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 14px; border-bottom-width: 1px; border-bottom-style: solid; border-bottom-color: rgb(33, 33, 34); display: inline-block; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><section class="" data-brushtype="text" style="margin-right: 2px; margin-left: 2px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;">Sigmund Freud</section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">&nbsp;<img class="" data-ratio="1.1796875" src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/YR0OdGH4GafaLrLymEYxNCibbxswCfq01cHib7knQMg2xGe9vsHFwmMLezzBPTMc4LDsJkQuPAuaP1NoZnqt30ZA/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="640" style="border-radius: 50%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible !important; width: 16em !important;" title="http://7xo6kd.com1.z0.glb.clouddn.com/upload-ueditor-image-20160814-1471176281345047596.jpeg" width="16"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 19.6923px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br  /></p><p><br  /></p><section class="" data-tools="gulangu" data-id="7" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; line-height: 25.6px; border: 0px none; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><blockquote style="margin-top: 5px; padding-top: 10px; padding-right: 10px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-left-width: 5px; border-left-color: rgb(157, 180, 194); line-height: 25px; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">1 没有所谓玩笑，所有的玩笑都有认真的成分。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">2&nbsp;精神健康的人，总是努力地工作及爱人。只要能做到这两 &nbsp; &nbsp;件事，其它的事就没有什么困难。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">3 没有口误这回事，所有的口误都是潜意识真实的流露。</p></blockquote></section><p><br  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><img class="" data-ratio="0.7272727272727273" src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/YR0OdGH4GafaLrLymEYxNCibbxswCfq01GlibzprvhslRIxEGibYIEzaPjiaSlSR0cNSjalDpfKqxZJ6h6jibXgc2aw/0?wx_fmt=gif" data-type="gif" data-w="550" style="white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible !important; width: 556px !important;" width="556"></p><p><br  /></p><section class="" data-tools="gulangu" data-id="7" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; line-height: 25.6px; border: 0px none; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><blockquote style="margin-top: 5px; padding-top: 10px; padding-right: 10px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-left-width: 5px; border-left-color: rgb(157, 180, 194); line-height: 25px; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">4 人生有两大悲剧：一个是没有得到你心爱的东西；另一个是得到了你心爱的东西。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">人生有两大快乐：一个是没有得到你心爱的东西，于是可以寻求和创造；另一个是得到了你心爱的东西，于是可以去品味和体验。&nbsp;</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">5 没有一个没有理智的人，能够接受理智。</p></blockquote></section><p><br  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 19.6923px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br  /></p><p><br  /></p><section class="" data-tools="gulangu" data-id="85446" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; line-height: 25.6px; border: 0px none; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section style="margin-top: 5px; margin-right: 5px; margin-left: 5px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">阿尔弗雷德?阿德勒</span></strong></section><section style="margin: 2px 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 0px rgb(33, 33, 34); font-size: 12px; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-width="40%" style="padding-top: 2px; padding-right: 2px; padding-left: 2px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 212.797px; border-top-width: 3px; border-top-style: solid; border-top-color: rgb(33, 33, 34); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 14px; border-bottom-width: 1px; border-bottom-style: solid; border-bottom-color: rgb(33, 33, 34); display: inline-block; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><section class="" data-brushtype="text" style="margin-right: 2px; margin-left: 2px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">Alfred Adler</p></section></section></section><p><br  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 19.6923px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><img class="" data-ratio="0.980544747081712" src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/YR0OdGH4GafaLrLymEYxNCibbxswCfq01OOYmbxXbmBTGa6r2L7WAr5IPQsARViaBUog2ZmrzFANd2Oaib5NoxnicA/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="514" style="border-radius: 50%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible !important; width: 16em !important;" title="http://7xo6kd.com1.z0.glb.clouddn.com/upload-ueditor-image-20160814-1471176460149028586.jpg" width="16"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">奥地利精神病学家。个体心理学的创始人，人本主义心理学先驱，现代自我心理学之父。曾追随弗洛伊德探讨神经症问题，但也是精神分析学派内部第一个反对弗洛伊德的人。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 19.6923px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br  /></p><p><br  /></p><section class="" data-tools="gulangu" data-id="7" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; line-height: 25.6px; border: 0px none; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><blockquote style="margin-top: 5px; padding-top: 10px; padding-right: 10px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-left-width: 5px; border-left-color: rgb(157, 180, 194); line-height: 25px; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">1 对别人不感兴趣的人，他一生中遇到的困难最多，对别人的伤害也最大。所有人类的失败，都出于这种人。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">2 应付生活中各种问题的勇气，能说明一个人如何定义生活的意义。</p></blockquote></section><p><br  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 19.6923px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我们每个人都有不同程度的自卑感，因为我们都想让自己更优秀，让自己过更好的生活。</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><img class="" data-ratio="0.7272727272727273" src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/YR0OdGH4GafaLrLymEYxNCibbxswCfq011YGJpnZwP5LWYzxTCxKiaUgGZIDmZOYog8micLYyiboy6k1CShs1nJGpw/0?wx_fmt=gif" data-type="gif" data-w="550" style="box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible !important; width: auto !important;" width="auto"></p><p><br  /></p><section class="" data-tools="gulangu" data-id="7" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; line-height: 25.6px; border: 0px none; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><blockquote style="margin-top: 5px; padding-top: 10px; padding-right: 10px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-left-width: 5px; border-left-color: rgb(157, 180, 194); line-height: 25px; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">3 当一个人遇到无法解决的问题却深信自己能够解决时就会表现出自卑情节。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">4 世界很单纯，人生也一样。不是世界复杂，而是你把世界变复杂了。<br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">5 没有一个人是住在客观的世界里， 我们都居住在一个各自赋予其意义的主观的世界。</p></blockquote></section><p><br  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 19.6923px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br  /></p><p><br  /></p><section class="" data-tools="gulangu" data-id="85446" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; line-height: 25.6px; border: 0px none; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section style="margin-top: 5px; margin-right: 5px; margin-left: 5px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">卡尔·荣格</strong></span></section><section style="margin: 2px 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 0px rgb(33, 33, 34); font-size: 12px; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-width="40%" style="padding-top: 2px; padding-right: 2px; padding-left: 2px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 212.797px; border-top-width: 3px; border-top-style: solid; border-top-color: rgb(33, 33, 34); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 14px; border-bottom-width: 1px; border-bottom-style: solid; border-bottom-color: rgb(33, 33, 34); display: inline-block; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><section class="" data-brushtype="text" style="margin-right: 2px; margin-left: 2px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;">Carl Gustav Jung<br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></section></section></section><p><br  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 19.6923px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><img class="" data-ratio="1" src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/YR0OdGH4GafaLrLymEYxNCibbxswCfq01uGwbsEzNSLUN3qJGddwEJRyNrkKyTQ1Cbkr0u8SRQIfYtw1q1xjVSw/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="400" style="border-radius: 50%; line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible !important; width: 16em !important;" title="http://7xo6kd.com1.z0.glb.clouddn.com/upload-ueditor-image-20160814-1471176623379047753.jpg" width="16"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">瑞士心理学家。1907年开始与弗洛伊德合作，发展及推广精神分析学说长达6年之久，之后与弗洛伊德理念不和，分道扬镳，创立了荣格人格分析心理学理论。他的理论和思想至今仍对心理学研究产生深远影响。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 19.6923px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br  /></p><p><br  /></p><section class="" data-tools="gulangu" data-id="7" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; line-height: 25.6px; border: 0px none; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><blockquote style="margin-top: 5px; padding-top: 10px; padding-right: 10px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-left-width: 5px; border-left-color: rgb(157, 180, 194); line-height: 25px; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">1 一个人毕其一生的努力，就是在整合他自童年时代起就已形成的性格。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">2&nbsp;孤独并不是来自身边无人。感到孤独的真正原因是因为一个人无法与他人交流对其最要紧的感受。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">3 要对这残缺的世界保持耐性，也别高估自己的完美。<br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">4 对最强烈冲突的克服，使我们获得一种稳定超然的安全与宁静感。要获得有益而持久的心理安全与宁静，所需要的正是这种强烈冲突的大爆发。<br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">5 每件促使我们注意到他人的事，都能使我们更好地理解自己。</p></blockquote></section><p><br  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><img class="" data-ratio="1.1428571428571428" src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/YR0OdGH4GafaLrLymEYxNCibbxswCfq01zvyAlagASzYib8NflCS7wCiaEyxBJTjd37Bib4AKw4s0rG3c1PaKFGicvA/0?wx_fmt=gif" data-type="gif" data-w="350" style="box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible !important; width: auto !important;" width="auto"></p><p><br  /></p><section class="" data-tools="gulangu" data-id="7" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; line-height: 25.6px; border: 0px none; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><blockquote style="margin-top: 5px; padding-top: 10px; padding-right: 10px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-left-width: 5px; border-left-color: rgb(157, 180, 194); line-height: 25px; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">6&nbsp;<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">一年中的夜晚与白天数量相同、持续时间一样长。即使快乐的生活也有其阴暗笔触，没有“悲哀”提供平衡，“愉快”一词就会失去意义。耐心镇静地接受世事变迁，是最好的处事之道。</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">7 创造不是来自智力，而是来自源于内在需要的游戏本能。创造性头脑与它所钟爱的对象玩耍。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">8&nbsp;<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">对于任何事务，要改变它就要先接受它。谴责不会解放，而只会压迫。</span></strong><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">9 我们看待事物的方式、而不是事物本身如何，决定着一切。</p></blockquote></section><section class="" data-tools="gulangu" data-id="85446" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; line-height: 25.6px; border: 0px none; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><p style="margin-top: 5px; margin-right: 5px; margin-left: 5px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="margin-top: 5px; margin-right: 5px; margin-left: 5px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">艾瑞克·弗洛姆&nbsp;</span></strong></p><section style="margin: 2px 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 0px rgb(33, 33, 34); font-size: 12px; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-width="40%" style="padding-top: 2px; padding-right: 2px; padding-left: 2px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 212.797px; border-top-width: 3px; border-top-style: solid; border-top-color: rgb(33, 33, 34); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 14px; border-bottom-width: 1px; border-bottom-style: solid; border-bottom-color: rgb(33, 33, 34); display: inline-block; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><section class="" data-brushtype="text" style="margin-right: 2px; margin-left: 2px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;">Erich Fromm</section></section></section><p><br  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 19.6923px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><img class="" data-ratio="0.9904306220095693" src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/YR0OdGH4GafaLrLymEYxNCibbxswCfq011WPnfc5teCzcicL2XL4vAu2zAlZLxwjpO6k7ib0VQ4n793TAD1sjsTIQ/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="209" style="border-radius: 50%; line-height: 1.75; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible !important; width: auto !important;" title="http://7xo6kd.com1.z0.glb.clouddn.com/upload-ueditor-image-20160814-1471175333021046122.jpg" width="auto"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">美籍德国犹太人。人本主义哲学家和精神分析心理学家。毕生致力修改弗洛伊德的精神分析学说，以切合西方人在两次世界大战后的精神处境。他的精神分析学说对世界有影响力。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 19.6923px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br  /></p><p><br  /></p><section class="" data-tools="gulangu" data-id="7" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; line-height: 25.6px; border: 0px none; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><blockquote style="margin-top: 5px; padding-top: 10px; padding-right: 10px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-left-width: 5px; border-left-color: rgb(157, 180, 194); line-height: 25px; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">1 每天安静地坐十五分钟，倾听你的气息，感觉它，感觉你自己，并且试着什么都不想。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">2 爱情与成熟度无关。如果不努力发展自己的全部人格，那么每种爱的努力都会失败；如果没有爱他人的能力，如果不能真正谦恭地、勇敢地、真诚地和有纪律地爱他人，那么人们，在自己的爱情生活中也永远得不到满足。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">3&nbsp;<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">如果我爱他人，我应该感到和他一致，而且接受他本来的面目。而不是要求他成为我希望的样子，以便使我能把他当作使用的对象</span></strong></p></blockquote></section><p><br  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><img class="" data-ratio="0.54" src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/YR0OdGH4GafaLrLymEYxNCibbxswCfq01hkxamBkr7nDWmspqBibkZibm3bgmKGtFSH4EO8Hw4UqyBemFsibfAD4Aw/0?wx_fmt=gif" data-type="gif" data-w="500" style="vertical-align: top; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible !important; width: auto !important;" width="auto"><br  /></p><p><br  /></p><section class="" data-tools="gulangu" data-id="7" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; line-height: 25.6px; border: 0px none; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><blockquote style="margin-top: 5px; padding-top: 10px; padding-right: 10px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-left-width: 5px; border-left-color: rgb(157, 180, 194); line-height: 25px; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">4 最重要的是学会一个人单独地待着，而且不看书、不听广播、不抽烟、不喝酒。有没有集中的能力表现在能不能单独地待着，而这种能力又是学会爱的一个条件。&nbsp;</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">正因为我们不能自力更生，所以只能把自己同另一个人连在一起，这个人也许就是我生命的拯救者，但是这种关系同爱无关。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">5<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp;爱首先不是同一个特定的人的关系；它是一种态度，一种性格倾向。这种态度、性格倾向决定了一个人同整个世界的关系，而不是同一个“爱的对象”的关系。</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">6 如果一个人只爱一个人，而对其他人漠不关心，他的爱就不是爱，而是一种共生性依恋或者是一种放大的自我主义。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; 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