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<section><section><section><section><section><section><section><span>YC是硅谷最棒的孵化器。Sam Altman就是YC现任董事长。27岁的时候，他联合创立的公司Loopt就被收购了，得到了一辈子花不完的钱。他也被《商业周刊》评为最优秀的年轻企业家。</span></section><section><span>一个30岁之前就达到了所谓的世俗成功的人，他在30岁的时候有什么想告诉我们的？鸡汤还是鸭汤？</span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p></p><section><section><section><section><section><section><section><span>上个星期，我刚过了自己三十岁的生日。有个朋友问我，对于过去的十年有没有什么值得分享的人生建议。说到分享经验，我还是有些犹豫的，因为那些类似的文章总是看起来很空洞。不过我还是提炼出了以下一些建议。</span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section><section><section><span>1</span></section></section><section><section><section><section><section><section><span><strong>宁求知己三两，不要熟人一堆。</strong></span></section><section><span>一定记得把家人、知己或是对你意义重大的人排在最高优先级。和老朋友们保持联系,偶尔与友人彻夜长谈,常和朋友聚聚。</span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section><section><section><span>2</span></section></section><section><section><section><section><section><section><span><strong>人生没有彩排——它是你生活当下的每分每秒。</strong></span></section><section><span>你要赋予每分每秒以价值。时光短暂，不舍昼夜。用有限的时间，做让你幸福和满足的事情，因为只有极少数的人在百年后仍能被人铭记。不要勉强自己做不快乐的事情，活在别人对自己的期待中。对于不喜欢的人，就不要费力维持关系了。警惕负能量，让那些负能量的人退出你的生活。想做什么就去做，别给自己找借口。</span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section><section><section><span>3</span></section></section><section><section><section><section><section><section><span><strong>个人理财上，不要花钱如流水。</strong></span></section><section><span>每月存工资30%的钱进行理财，仅仅做到这一点，就会给你的生活带来很多机会。（欢迎来光合种子哦~最下边有红包领）</span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section><section><section><span>4</span></section></section><section><section><section><section><section><section><span><strong>如何成功：</strong></span></section><section><span>做正确的事（这点很关键却常常被忽略）、专注、自信（特别当被别人质疑时）、结交益友、学习如何辨识千里马、勤奋。只有借助独创性思维才能找到值得做的事，但做到这一点并不容易。</span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section><section><section><span>5</span></section></section><section><section><section><section><section><section><span><strong>关于工作：</strong></span></section><section><span>只有怀着热情才能成就一番事业。如果你的工作你并不热爱，那人生很难获得全然的幸福和满足。工作时一定要全力以赴，虽然这样会让有些人不太舒服；不过也要记住过犹不及，别失去工作以外的生活时刻。以在专业领域以世界顶尖为目标，即使最终并未实现，你也能够从中获益颇多。形成自己的生产系统，这样能让你富有条理，保持最佳状态。在事业上要敢于冒险，特别是在年轻的时候。很多人随随便便地选了一份工作，但你可得认真思考你喜欢什么，什么领域更有可能成功以及和那些领域的人多多交流。</span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section><section><section><span>6</span></section></section><section><section><section><section><section><section><span><strong>关于钱财：</strong></span></section><section><span>不论钱财是否能买来幸福，它至少能买来自由，这很重要。而且，贫穷会带来巨大的压力。就生活质量而言，通常情况下，有钱付房租的意义远远大于有钱买飞机。挣钱的过程比花钱的过程更有趣。但是，我从来不后悔花钱在朋友、新体验、节约时间、旅行以及其他任何我认可的理由上。</span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section><section><section><span>7</span></section></section><section><section><section><section><section><section><span><strong>关于精力分配：</strong></span></section><section><span>与人多交流。多读结构严谨的长文章，少读碎片化信息。少看电视，少上网。</span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section><section><section><span>8</span></section></section><section><section><section><section><section><section><span><strong>一定不要浪费时间。</strong></span></section><section><span>太多人浪费了太多的时间，商业领域尤甚。</span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section><section><section><span>9</span></section></section><section><section><section><section><section><section><span><strong>不要任人摆布。</strong></span></section><section><span>Paul Graham曾经跟我说：总有人会变得很强大，但你很难预测谁会变成那个强大的人（自信和傲慢两者相差甚远，显然，我们需要努力做到前者）。</span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section><section><section><span>10</span></section></section><section><section><section><section><section><section><span><strong>十年很短，一天很长。</strong></span></section><section><span>规划好自己的每一天，每一年以及每十年。</span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section><section><section><span>11</span></section></section><section><section><section><section><section><section><span><strong>虽然计划很重要，但是也要及时抓住好机遇。</strong></span></section><section><span>不要害怕做出看似有些莽撞的选择。勤奋能带来好运，不过能否抓住机遇还是取决于你自己。</span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section><section><section><span>12</span></section></section><section><section><section><section><section><section><span><strong>走出去，与智慧的、有趣的并且有追求的人交往。</strong></span></section><section><span>为他们工作或是让他们为你工作（事实上工作中最让人满意的一点就是能够与很棒的人建立深厚的关系）。花时间在两种人身上：一是顶尖专业人士，二是潜力股。事实上，你会越来越像那些你交往的人。</span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section><section><section><span>13</span></section></section><section><section><section><section><section><section><span><strong>努力不要让自己分神在一些无关紧要的事情上。</strong></span></section><section><span>这一点的重要性怎么说都不过分，而且大多数人都在这一点上摔跤。将那些分散注意力的事情彻底隔绝在生活之外。用行之有效的方法避免烦心的杂事堆积起来，形成自己的心灵调节法，在工作中尤其要注意这一点。</span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section><section><section><span>14</span></section></section><section><section><section><section><section><section><span><strong>夏天是最好的季节。</strong></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section><section><section><span>15</span></section></section><section><section><section><section><section><section><span><strong>不要过度焦虑。</strong></span></section><section><span>生活中很多事情的风险没有看起来这么大。有太多的人不愿意冒险，所以大多数的建议会趋于保守。</span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section><section><section><span>16</span></section></section><section><section><section><section><section><section><span><strong>想要的就尽力去争取。</strong></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section><section><section><span>17</span></section></section><section><section><section><section><section><section><span><strong>如果你可以预见有些事现在错过的话，以后一定会后悔，那你现在就该立刻去做。</strong></span></section><section><span>后悔是最糟糕的情绪，大多数人后悔没做的事情比实际做了的事情多得多。所以如果你不确定自己的心意，吻了再说！</span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section><section><section><span>18</span></section></section><section><section><section><section><section><section><span><strong>锻炼身体，健康饮食，保证睡眠，定期亲近大自然。</strong></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section><section><section><span>19</span></section></section><section><section><section><section><section><section><span><strong>走出去帮助别人。</strong></span></section><section><span>人生不如意之事十之八九。与人为善，即使是在一些无关紧要的时候。</span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section><section><section><span>20</span></section></section><section><section><section><section><section><section><span><strong>青春真的很美好，不要浪费了。</strong></span></section><section><span>事实上，我认为二十多岁的时候，如果觉得“理财规划还是需要的，但不是现在”也未尝不可。即使是用尽世上所有的钱也无法买回逝去的时光！</span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section><section><section><span>21</span></section></section><section><section><section><section><section><section><span><strong>要经常告诉爸妈你爱他们，常回家看看。</strong></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section><section><section><span>22</span></section></section><section><section><section><section><section><section><span><strong>没有过不去的坎。</strong></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section><section><section><span>23</span></section></section><section><section><section><section><section><section><span><strong>贪婪地学习。</strong></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section><section><section><span>24</span></section></section><section><section><section><section><section><section><span><strong>经常尝试新事物，这很重要。</strong></span></section><section><span>尝试新事物不但会让我们对时间的感知变慢、提升幸福感、保持生活的新鲜感；而且，新的事物能够防止我们思维僵化。每年生活中和事业上都要力求做一件伟大、新颖而又有些冒险的事情。</span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section><section><section><span>25</span></section></section><section><section><section><section><section><section><span><strong>保持乐观的态度。</strong></span></section><section><span>还记得年少时的你是如何地深爱你的男友/女友的吗？还要一如既往地去爱啊！还记得孩童时世间万物给你带来的兴奋感与幸福感吗？现在也要继续感到兴奋和幸福啊！</span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section><section><section><span>26</span></section></section><section><section><section><section><section><section><span><strong>不要加害他人，轻易和别人绝交。谨慎地挑选你的战友。</strong></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section><section><section><span>27</span></section></section><section><section><section><section><section><section><span><strong>宽厚待人。</strong></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section><section><section><span>28</span></section></section><section><section><section><section><section><section><span><strong>不要追逐虚幻的地位。</strong></span></section><section><span>有名无实不长久而且也带不来满足感。</span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section><section><section><span>29</span></section></section><section><section><section><section><section><section><span><strong>大多数事情都需要适可而止。</strong></span></section><section><span>几乎没有什么事情走极端还能没问题的。</span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section><section><section><span>30</span></section></section><section><section><section><section><section><section><span><strong>存在性焦虑是生活的一部分。</strong></span></section><section><span>这种情绪特别容易出现在人生重大转折时或者做了职业生涯中的重大决定之后，而且似乎越是聪明、有想法的人越容易受到影响。我觉得许多人工作很努力的原因是让自己没有时间去思考这个问题。对自己存在的价值产生焦虑并没有错，而且你并不孤独。</span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section><section><section><span>31</span></section></section><section><section><section><section><section><section><span><strong>心怀感恩，有大局观。</strong></span></section><section><span>不要总是抱怨。也不要对他人的成功感到愤懑，不过也要记住你的成功会引来一些人的怨恨，你得学会对这些视而不见。</span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section><section><section><span>32</span></section></section><section><section><section><section><section><section><span><strong>多做少说。</strong></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section><section><section><span>33</span></section></section><section><section><section><section><section><section><span><strong>只要时间足够，无论好事坏事，人总能适应。</strong>人类的适应性令人惊讶。</span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section><section><section><span>34</span></section></section><section><section><section><section><section><section><span><strong>采取行动前留几秒来思考；生气的时候也要花几分钟来思考。</strong></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section><section><section><span>35</span></section></section><section><section><section><section><section><section><span><strong>不要过早对他人下定论。</strong></span></section><section><span>因为你无从知晓他们的故事以及他们为什么会做或者不做的原因。学会站在他人的立场上。</span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section><section><section><section><br 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