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发表于 2020-10-20 00:08:10 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式

                    

                    

                    
                    
                    <p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">职场中有这样一群人:他们稍稍遭遇否定就一蹶不振,一被批评就“蔫”了下来,遇到challenge就全盘否定自己,甚至被骂一句就产生“不想干”的想法。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">很多人把这样的状况归因于没有遇到一个慧眼识珠的好boss,甚至会产生辞掉工作换个老板的想法,但往往发现同样的情景仍会在新工作中上演,因为让你委屈的真正原因并不是别人的态度,而在于你有一颗易碎的玻璃心。</p><p><br  /></p><section class="tn-Powered-by-gulangu" style="margin-top: 0.8em; margin-bottom: 0.5em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; widows: 1; border: 0px; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section class="tn-Powered-by-gulangu" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; width: 1.3em; height: 1.3em; border-radius: 50%; line-height: 1.3; font-size: 42px; font-family: inherit; text-align: center; text-decoration: inherit; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-color: rgb(255, 129, 36); word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 129, 36);"><section class="tn-Powered-by-gulangu" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;">1</section></section><section class="tn-Powered-by-gulangu" style="margin-left: 0.7em; padding-top: 0.3em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="tn-Powered-by-gulangu" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 1.4; font-size: 18px; font-family: inherit; font-weight: bold; text-decoration: inherit; color: rgb(42, 52, 58); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="tn-Powered-by-gulangu" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;">收起玻璃心</section></section><section class="tn-Powered-by-gulangu" style="margin-left: 0.2em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 1.4; font-size: 1em; font-family: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; color: rgb(135, 139, 140); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="tn-Powered-by-gulangu" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;">是上司对你的期待</section></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">滴滴总裁柳青在谈到2016年对团队的期待时,第一点就是希望团队要有“心力”——放下玻璃心,换一个钢的、铁的回来。</p><p><br  /></p><section label="Copyright ? 2015 playhudong All Rights Reserved." donone="shifuMouseDownCard(&#39;shifu_c_038&#39;)" style="padding-top: 20px; padding-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 1em; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; widows: 1; width: 670px; text-decoration: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(245, 245, 245);"><section class="color" style="margin-right: 8px; max-width: 100%; width: 33.5px; font-size: 3em; font-family: arial; color: rgb(255, 105, 31); line-height: 0.8em; display: inline-block; font-weight: bolder; vertical-align: top; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">“</section><section style="margin-top: 0.5em; margin-left: 0.2em; max-width: 100%; font-size: 1em; width: 603px; display: inline-block; vertical-align: middle; font-family: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">在营销团队和市场团队,我一直很苛责的,他们基本上递过来的上面的产品基本都被打回原形,从来都是讲不好,很少很少鼓励。我们一定要突破,在品牌上做突破,在营销上做突破,不能再被人看为是很LOW的品牌,不能只跟补贴在一起。</span></section></section><p><br  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">要求员工心理强大,是很多老板的共识。蚂蚁金服首席执行官彭蕾在一次会议中发表自己对于“什么是合格人才”的看法,其中很重要的一点就是要“皮实”。</p><p><br  /></p><section label="Copyright ? 2015 playhudong All Rights Reserved." donone="shifuMouseDownCard(&#39;shifu_c_038&#39;)" style="padding-top: 20px; padding-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 1em; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; widows: 1; width: 670px; text-decoration: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(245, 245, 245);"><section class="color" style="margin-right: 8px; max-width: 100%; width: 33.5px; font-size: 3em; font-family: arial; color: rgb(255, 105, 31); line-height: 0.8em; display: inline-block; font-weight: bolder; vertical-align: top; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">“</section><section style="margin-top: 0.5em; margin-left: 0.2em; max-width: 100%; font-size: 1em; width: 603px; display: inline-block; vertical-align: middle; font-family: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">第一,就是足够聪明,包括智商和情商,要有直觉、充分发挥感性的力量;第二,乐观,站得高自然看得远,只有眼光长远才不会计较眼前的困难;第三,皮实,就是不要有玻璃心,一碰就碎了,在激烈的竞争环境下,很难有谁会顾及到彼此的情绪;第四,懂得自省,有时候尽管不是你的问题,也需要你为这个问题寻找解决方案而不是计较孰对孰错。</span></section></section><p><br  /></p><p class="shifubrush" style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">可见,负能量和玻璃心的员工是不受欢迎的。有时,这些坏情绪的滋生连自己都觉察不到,但其产生的危害却是不可忽视的:不仅影响自己的工作效率,还会影响整个团队的士气。</p><p><br  /></p><section class="tn-Powered-by-gulangu" style="margin-top: 0.8em; margin-bottom: 0.5em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; widows: 1; border: 0px; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section class="tn-Powered-by-gulangu" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; width: 1.3em; height: 1.3em; border-radius: 50%; line-height: 1.3; font-size: 42px; font-family: inherit; text-align: center; text-decoration: inherit; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-color: rgb(255, 129, 36); word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 129, 36);"><section class="tn-Powered-by-gulangu" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;">2</section></section><section class="tn-Powered-by-gulangu" style="margin-left: 0.7em; padding-top: 0.3em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="tn-Powered-by-gulangu" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 1.4; font-size: 18px; font-family: inherit; font-weight: bold; text-decoration: inherit; color: rgb(42, 52, 58); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="tn-Powered-by-gulangu" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;">批评是“负面反馈”</section></section><section class="tn-Powered-by-gulangu" style="margin-left: 0.2em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 1.4; font-size: 1em; font-family: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; color: rgb(135, 139, 140); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="tn-Powered-by-gulangu" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;">帮你看到进步的空间</section></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">乔布斯在一次接受采访的过程中,将自己的成功归功于发现了很多才华横溢、不甘平庸的A级人才。“假如你找到真正顶尖的人才,你不需要悉心呵护他们自尊心。因为这样的人知道自己很棒,心思全都放在工作上,在他们的价值观中,工作表现才是最重要的。”</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><img data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" data-ratio="0.5989208633093526" data-w="" src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/z4jPFqF5NIbLreXvTLeUnPhibwdpNHqwkQ7CI8Ab1da5pYVovtQicsF50WAAfuHPnJNq2Ya3CrAGibSzTteyRSMmQ/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" style="box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; width: auto !important; visibility: visible !important;"  /><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">什么才是对于员工真正有益的管理方式呢?乔布斯的做法是,当员工犯错误时,直截了当地告诉他们哪里做得不好,用无可置疑的方式告诉他们“你的工作不合格”。这是让人快速成长的途径,也是一个人职业生涯中最宝贵的财富。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">抛弃了玻璃心,拥有更坚强的内心,你会发现自己得到很多好处:<span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">当领导完全放手把工作交给你时,或许正是源于你们之前一遍一遍地沟通、试错而产生的信赖;</span><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">当老板对你的进步竖起大拇指说“干得漂亮”时,你是否觉得从前那些被虐、被骂的惨痛经历都有了新的意义?</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><img data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" data-ratio="0.6870503597122302" data-w="" src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/z4jPFqF5NIaVPiaCV2P3ZpM04UZv6fNZZILfl4slfufmTG61np5SHPV8AhvLDKMoUgoJlfsgxjiaSCeoAAD9BenQ/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" style="box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; width: auto !important; visibility: visible !important;"  /><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">所以说,那些打不倒你的东西,终将使你更加坚强!如果老板对你冷漠得不闻不问、不理不睬时,才是真的危险——你已经被边缘化了。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">即便你工作成绩不错,也不能松懈,应该挑战更高难的目标。以严苛的企业文化著称的Amazon里流传这样一句话:“你并没有那么好,你还可以更好!”其实对于每个职场人而言,又何尝不是这样呢?</p><p><br  /></p><section class="tn-Powered-by-gulangu" style="margin-top: 0.8em; margin-bottom: 0.5em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; widows: 1; border: 0px; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section class="tn-Powered-by-gulangu" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; width: 1.3em; height: 1.3em; border-radius: 50%; line-height: 1.3; font-size: 42px; font-family: inherit; text-align: center; text-decoration: inherit; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-color: rgb(255, 129, 36); word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 129, 36);"><section class="tn-Powered-by-gulangu" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;">3</section></section><section class="tn-Powered-by-gulangu" style="margin-left: 0.7em; padding-top: 0.3em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="tn-Powered-by-gulangu" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 1.4; font-size: 18px; font-family: inherit; font-weight: bold; text-decoration: inherit; color: rgb(42, 52, 58); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="tn-Powered-by-gulangu" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;">太情绪化=难担大任</section></section><section class="tn-Powered-by-gulangu" style="margin-left: 0.2em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 1.4; font-size: 1em; font-family: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; color: rgb(135, 139, 140); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="tn-Powered-by-gulangu" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;">企业需要真正做事情的人</section></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">四年前,我和姐姐一块儿创业。招人时,姐姐有一条硬性标准——太情绪化的员工不能要。她的理由是:每天需要同时处理很多事情,需要为事情的进展及结果负责,而不是为员工的情绪埋单,她甚至无暇顾及到严厉的批评和无情的否定对一个人造成的伤害,因为创业公司要想活下来,需要的是不断完成的目标以及能够管理自己情绪的高效团队。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><img wx-src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/zWrQNia0feg48Hiau3Ts1YryCb0HTLON1ff81Uu2UIxFH9SAMMIWe5opQ5cPF3icbWscnPMV5boTVyOmsxjD3bbvQ/0" class="" data-type="gif" data-ratio="1" data-w="250" width="auto" src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/40FcUtZvdD0zDaGT0oLvdd2ufFCDXdZjibAHoVAB6ESBIwBVWkaPPta9Kj7N2e06lwtzicSEVibz2iamoNQ0icOIyBw/0?wx_fmt=gif" style="box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; width: auto !important; visibility: visible !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">对于员工来说,情绪化是职业发展的大敌,因为太情绪化的员工难担大任。情绪化的员工不仅影响自己能力的发挥,还会为周围的同事散播负能量,产生消极的影响,这一点是职场最为忌讳的。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">对于团队领导来说,很多时候要面对的是没有帮助、没有理解甚至连退路都没有的情况。这时,你能做的不是怨天尤人,而是去影响和带动别人,与团队一起努力走出低谷。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p><br  /></p><section class="tn-Powered-by-gulangu" style="margin-top: 0.8em; margin-bottom: 0.5em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; widows: 1; border: 0px; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section class="tn-Powered-by-gulangu" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; width: 1.3em; height: 1.3em; border-radius: 50%; line-height: 1.3; font-size: 42px; font-family: inherit; text-align: center; text-decoration: inherit; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); border-color: rgb(255, 129, 36); word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 129, 36);"><section class="tn-Powered-by-gulangu" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;">4</section></section><section class="tn-Powered-by-gulangu" style="margin-left: 0.7em; padding-top: 0.3em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="tn-Powered-by-gulangu" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 1.4; font-size: 18px; font-family: inherit; font-weight: bold; text-decoration: inherit; color: rgb(42, 52, 58); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="tn-Powered-by-gulangu" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;">如何面对批评?</section></section><section class="tn-Powered-by-gulangu" style="margin-left: 0.2em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 1.4; font-size: 1em; font-family: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; color: rgb(135, 139, 140); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="tn-Powered-by-gulangu" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;">你要做的有这些</section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%; width: 0px; height: 0px; clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section></section><p><br  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">否定、批评在职场中都是再正常不过的现象,当你的心灵受到创伤时,你可以按照下面的三个步骤来重新审视自己。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></span></p><blockquote style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">调整心态,从一种对抗的逆反心里变成虚心接受的态度。“偏听则暗,兼听则明”,倾听多方面的意见,才更容易明辨是非,做出理性的判断。</span><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">向批评者提问,确认关键信息的准确性以及自己是否完全理解,弄明白他们到底想表达什么以及为什么要说这些。以“是否对完成目标有益”为判断准则,而不是暗自揣摩“他是否是在针对我”。每个人都有各自不同的出发点,尝试从新的立场看待问题,你也许会有不一样的感悟。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">如果确认对方的批评是有效、有益的。那么不要犹豫,“马上采取行动”正是一名高效执行人才接下来要做的事情。</p></blockquote><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><img data-s="300,640" data-type="png" data-ratio="0.5044776119402985" data-w="335" width="auto" width="auto" src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/wicSEx7Lrss3GBic88hT73iaY4HgbpFl0TJE0FgHjPRptts2oO0wB6Ph4phm4UlQfu29CTBOpwPRyicIaZYg2Dguibg/640?" style="line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; width: auto !important; visibility: visible !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; 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