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<section class="" style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); white-space: normal; line-height: 28.4444px; font-family: 微软雅黑; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" data-id="85956" data-color="rgb(117, 117, 118)" data-custom="rgb(117, 117, 118)" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 0px none; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="margin: -1px 5px; padding: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 1px solid rgb(117, 117, 118); text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 76, 0); background-color: rgb(255, 251, 0);"><strong style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136); font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.5em; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 76, 0); max-width: 100%; line-height: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 251, 0);">不懂拒绝，是一种病</span></strong></span><span style="color: rgb(255, 76, 0);"><strong style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136); font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.5em; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></strong><strong style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136); font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.5em; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></strong></span><br /></p></section></section></section></section><section label="powered by gulangu" style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); white-space: normal; line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section label="powered by gulangu" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section label="powered by gulangu" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section label="powered by gulangu" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-id="2484" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-width="85%" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" label="powered by gulangu" style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 微软雅黑; -webkit-border-image: none; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" data-id="2484" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 0px none; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" data-width="85%" style="margin: 10px auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 564.391px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; text-align: center; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="color: rgb(0, 128, 255);"><strong><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 22.5px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 28px; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">不懂拒绝的人，</span></strong></span></p><p style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; text-align: center; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="color: rgb(0, 128, 255);"><strong><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 22.5px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 28px; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">迟早要学会狠下心肠。</span></strong><strong><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 22.5px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 28px; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">最近播得很火的《欢乐颂》大家并不陌生吧？里面五个女孩里，很多人最喜欢的都是关雎尔，因为她人长得甜美，心地也好。但她也常常为人诟病：正因为心地太好，她不懂得拒绝别人。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">关雎尔很多时候加班加得晚，都是因为帮别人做事。终于有一次，同事又病了请她完成剩下的工作，最后也是她签名确认。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">同事做的那一部分错漏百出，经理知道后却只骂了关雎尔。因为最后签名的是她，所有责任都要她来承担。而那个同事，出事之后一句话也没替她说，也没有一句安慰。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">关雎尔的傻白甜行径，其实也是今天许多人的写照：</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">因为想塑造自己的良好形象，因为顾及双方的脸面，总是对朋友的请求来者不拒。终于，我们温暖了别人，却累死了自己。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></strong></span></p></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" data-ratio="0.5571955719557196" data-w="" width="auto" src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/BLaVMd1XZsLeLTLonFrKOPzZy9FlknclGykHD3MuDl7smnYtoMSwvqmQh51XpskaQiaDPa6GzfWrI8m9fl6jobw/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" style="box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; width: auto !important; visibility: visible !important;" /><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><section class="" label="powered by gulangu" style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 微软雅黑; -webkit-border-image: none; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" data-id="2484" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 0px none; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" data-width="85%" style="margin: 10px auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 564.391px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; text-align: center; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(0, 128, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 14px; max-width: 100%; line-height: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">你有多重要？</span></strong></span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></strong><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 14px; line-height: 24px; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">不懂得拒绝别人，其实很多时候是因为我们将自己放在太重要的位置。为什么这么说呢？</span></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 14px; line-height: 24px; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br /></span></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">“TA一定是走投无路了，才来找我……”、“要是我把TA拒绝了，我就是坏人……”这是我们在接受求助时的心理。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">斗米恩升米仇的故事，却告诉了我们一个无法违背的人性：</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">帮得了一次，就有第二次；帮得了第二次，就有后面无穷多次。而无休止帮助的剧情发展，往往是始于感恩，终于嫌隙。当哪一次帮不上忙，你就会变成罪人。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br /></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">看到这里，是否特有感触？心里是否闪过一些念想：某某之前特依赖、信任我，一有什么事都会问我意见，找我帮忙，我们的感情特别好！但是自从那次。。。我没能帮上他，我们的关系突然变得好别扭，他对我好像有了芥蒂。。。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br /></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">人就是这样！有句话叫“人心不足蛇吞象”，你对他好，他对你一开始是感激，久而久之他会觉得理所当然。但当你某天突然没按他心里想的那样对他好的时候，他就会对你怀恨在心，觉得你变了，觉得你不应该那样对他！</span></p></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" data-ratio="0.5571955719557196" data-w="" width="auto" src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/BLaVMd1XZsLeLTLonFrKOPzZy9FlkncljUlQPaUH9P84QyOr5qJvsJ9iama35J46tMXBRl718YadKdvgjXholNw/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" style="box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; width: auto !important; visibility: visible !important;" /><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><section class="" label="powered by gulangu" style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 微软雅黑; -webkit-border-image: none; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" data-id="2484" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 0px none; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" data-width="85%" style="margin: 10px auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 564.391px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; text-align: center; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(0, 128, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 14px; max-width: 100%; line-height: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">你的位置，决定了你的作为</span></strong></span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></strong><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">《蝙蝠侠大战超人：正义黎明》这部电影里面，从不拒绝救助任何人的超人，面临着一个巨大挑战：民众在恐慌，这么一个能力巨大的人，他为什么只是帮助人？未来会不会有一天，他用这种强大力量反过来杀人？</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">因此在法庭上，众人拷问的是超人的这个问题：你到底是谁？</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">不懂拒绝别人的人，有意无意地其实是把自己当成了超人。而他们之所以不懂得拒绝，其实正是因为他们跟超人一样，根本没有弄清楚自己到底是谁。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">关雎尔没有弄清楚自己的身份，她只是公司的其中一个职能，在一个讲究分工协作的五百强企业，她根本不可能完成所有职能的执行。所以她累死累活，最终只能得到跟超人同样的质问。</span></p></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" data-ratio="0.5571955719557196" data-w="" width="auto" src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/BLaVMd1XZsLeLTLonFrKOPzZy9Flknclibm6W4kzb6iayQ8ZZTF8zIe174eQicflk9dNcpNNZo5NsNZD1CHleuZvQ/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" style="box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; width: auto !important; visibility: visible !important;" /><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><section class="" label="powered by gulangu" style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 微软雅黑; -webkit-border-image: none; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" data-id="2484" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 0px none; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" data-width="85%" style="margin: 10px auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 564.391px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; text-align: center; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(0, 128, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 14px; max-width: 100%; line-height: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">拒绝！时而温柔、时而狠狠地拒绝！</span></strong></span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></strong><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">孔子曰：“有所为，有所不为”。“有所不为”就是拒绝。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">三毛说: “不要害怕拒绝他人，如果自己的理由出于正当。当一个人开口提出要求的时候，他的心里根本预备好了两种答案。所以，给他任何一个其中的答案，都是意料中的。”</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">拒绝可以是“我要下班了”，“我不喜欢那样做”，直接的“我不想”也未尝不可。当然，如果不想伤害别人的面子，话就说得圆一点——</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">钱钟书去世后，早年就暗恋杨绛的费孝通又再上门，临走时，杨绛送他一句话：“楼梯不好走，你以后也不要‘知难而上’了。”</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">费孝通也是聪明人，以后也只能死了那条心。</span></p></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p></section><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" data-ratio="0.5571955719557196" data-w="" width="auto" src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/BLaVMd1XZsLeLTLonFrKOPzZy9FlknclbwVO99o8LiazzkpHDcCoPoypvgg6WzlVyccw9FKAJ8P6JylUfenxicag/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" style="box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; width: auto !important; visibility: visible !important;" /><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><section class="" label="powered by gulangu" style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 微软雅黑; -webkit-border-image: none; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" data-id="2484" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 0px none; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" data-width="85%" style="margin: 10px auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 564.391px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: inherit; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">拒绝，不是对来者的侮辱。相反，不浪费大家的时间，是对双方最大的尊重。<br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">每一次拒绝，你都是再一次回答了一个重要的问题，也促使对方思考这一个问题：</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; text-align: justify; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我到底是谁。</span></p></section></section></section><section class="" label="powered by gulangu" style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 25.6px; font-family: 微软雅黑; -webkit-border-image: none; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" label="powered by gulangu" style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 25.6px; -webkit-border-image: none; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" data-id="2484" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 0px none; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" data-width="85%" style="margin: 10px auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 564.391px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section label="powered by gulangu" style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" data-id="2484" style="max-width: 100%; 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