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<p style="text-align: center;"><img data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/dx3KibwtDhve3taIzPSpr8ib9pE0sibUbV6FJgtBKlndP9H6dBKVXCHiapztB0IPW5cXn1zelTibNrlMr19bT4wicakA/0?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-ratio="1.4975" data-w="400" /></p><p></p><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; widows: 1; line-height: 28.4444px; font-family: 微软雅黑; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" data-id="85956" data-color="rgb(117, 117, 118)" data-custom="rgb(117, 117, 118)" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 0px none; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="margin: -1px 5px; padding: 1em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 1px solid rgb(117, 117, 118); text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: left; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(139, 125, 123); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">有多少人，因为自己的“亲眼所见”，尤其是亲密关系里，从此耿耿于怀，甚至怀恨在心……可悲的是，到死都不知道，其实是自己“看错了”。</strong></span></p></section></section></section></section><p></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; white-space: normal; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; widows: 1; line-height: 24.381px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="margin-top: 20px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">《吕氏春秋》里有一段，讲孔子周游列国，曾因兵荒马乱，旅途困顿，三餐以野菜果腹，大家已七日没吃下一粒米饭。</p><p style="margin-top: 20px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">一天，颜回好不容易要到了一些白米煮饭，饭快煮熟时，孔子看到颜回掀起锅盖，抓些白饭往嘴里塞，孔子当时装作没看见，也不去责问。</p><p style="margin-top: 20px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">饭煮好后，颜回请孔子进食，孔子假装若有所思地说：“我刚才梦到祖先来找我，我想把干净还没人吃过的米饭，先拿来祭祖先吧！”</p><p style="margin-top: 20px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">颜回顿时慌张起来说：“不可以的，这锅饭我已先吃一口了，不可以祭祖先了。”</p><p style="margin-top: 20px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">孔子问：为什么？</p><p style="margin-top: 20px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">颜回涨红脸，嗫嗫地说：“刚才在煮饭时，不小心掉了些染灰在锅里，染灰的白饭丢了太可惜，只好抓起来先吃了，我不是故意把饭吃了。”</p><p style="margin-top: 20px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">孔子听了，恍然大悟，对自己的观察错误，反而愧疚，抱歉地说：“我平常对颜回已最信任，但仍然还会怀疑他，可见我们内心是最难确定稳定的。弟子们大家记下这件事，要了解一个人，还真是不容易啊！”</p><p style="text-align: center;"><img data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/dx3KibwtDhve3taIzPSpr8ib9pE0sibUbV6UIOUWnroficQAtT3ckicK0wPNaaArqenAyPFlaEemrV4KibdPzQTY8Hsg/0?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-ratio="1" data-w="513" /></p><p style="margin-top: 20px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">所谓知人难，相知相惜更难。逢事必从上下、左右、前后各个角度来认识辨知，我们主观的了解观察，只是真相的千分之一，单一角度判断，是不能达到全方位的观照的！</p><p style="margin-top: 20px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">当你要对一个人下结论的时候，想想：真的你所看到的才是事实吗？还是你只从一个面，一个点，去观察一个人呢？</p><p style="margin-top: 20px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">大多数的人根本不了解对方的立场与困难的时候，就已经给了对方下评语了，更何况是在有利益冲突下的场合。</strong></span></p><p style="margin-top: 20px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">现今的人们拥有高学历高知识，却往往过度仰赖高知识，而忘了让自己在智慧上成长。很多事信者恒信，不信者恒不信，要客观地跳出成见，才有机会接近真相。连孔圣人也会对自己最信任的弟子起疑心，更何况我们呢？</p><p style="margin-top: 20px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我们是不是也常常因为“亲眼所见、亲耳所闻”，对他人产生了某种印象，从而为他人打上某种“标签”呢？孔圣人可以当下就用智慧，轻易了解真相，消除误会，可是我们呢？</p><p style="margin-top: 20px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">有多少人，因为自己的“亲眼所见”，尤其是亲密关系里，从此耿耿于怀，甚至怀恨在心……可悲的是，到死都不知道，其实是自己“看错了”。</p><p style="margin-top: 20px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; widows: 1; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; 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